Early Educational Services (Early Intervention / Preschool)

Our son participated in the state's educational services from a very young age.  The first program we participated in was Early Intervention Services.  I believe Early Intervention is available to any child from birth to age 3 who has not / or who is expected to not meet developmental milestones due to a medical condition.  Although we did not have a diagnosis we were able to qualify because Noah's doctor reported that Noah had a speech delay due to multiple ear infections.  This program does receive state funding, but it is not free.  The cost of the program is determined by your family's income.  I think Noah started this program around 18 months.

I was directed to the program by a parent with a child in the special needs community.  At that point I didn't even consider our situation "special needs," but I'm glad I applied.  I was told by a my sons ENT that we "should not apply" because we "would not qualify".  This just goes to show what a wonderful resource parents are.  Parents are self taught experts on available services and treatments for their kids.

Once we got accepted to the Early Intervention Program they evaluated us and we qualified for physical therapy, occupational therapy, and playgroup.  Noah loved the one on one attention he received from his therapists, and the playgroup was awesome!  Playgroup was great mommy & me time.  It was structured with play time, song time, snack time, and story time.  He loved it, and I loved the opportunity to meet other moms and dads who were dealing with similar struggles.  It was such an awesome experience, I wish there was something like that available all of my children.

Another great thing about Early Intervention is that when your child turns 3 they arrange for you to be  evaluated for Preschool Services.  As a parent of a special needs child you always have a long list of things to research.  I found it really refreshing to have someone point me in a direction for a change.  If your child continues to qualify they will help you set up your individualized education plans, and other services that will follow your child through school.  (These services are fully funded, and are free for those who qualify)

The state funded preschool program can be a wonderful experience for your child.  The preschool is an inclusive environment which means your child with be educated with their non disabled peers.  I believe that working with peers of all different abilities is a positive experience.  It educates the kids about diversity and acceptance as well as giving them a sense self awareness and offering them the opportunity to serve others.  


On my last visit to my son's school I was touched to see him serving another child by pushing her wheelchair into the classroom.  My son has low muscle tone and physical activity is difficult for him.  There have been many times when his muscles weren't strong enough and he needed assistance climbing stairs, playing on a jungle gym, or trying to ride a bike.   What an amazing experience it is for him to able to be the aid.  It almost makes me cry.  I love that all the kids have a chance to shine here.  Every child has something valuable to offer their peers.


State funded programs are wonderful if you get good educators and workers.   Unfortunately, if your teacher is burnt out, or your worker is apathetic, you are stuck with them based on where you live.  It's good idea to get into the classroom and observe your child's services.  This way you can know if you should be seeking additional or alternative treatments for your child.  In general I think the experience was good for my son.  His teacher, Miss Holly, at North Point Elementary school was wonderful.  She   really understands and cares for her students.  She see their strengths through their disabilities and helps them excel.  

Autism Awareness

My son is 4 years old.  He has a PTEN Deletion and has been diagnosed with Autism PDD.  I worry about him starting kindergarten next year.  There are many parts of his disability that pull at my heart strings.  It was difficult to hear a doctor express concerns over his intellectual abilities, and physical abilities.  It even more difficult to hear that he was at high risk of cancer, and also very hard to accept the diagnosis of Autism.  Even with all of these trials the one thing that cuts the deepest is chance that these differences might isolate him and prevent him from finding friendship.  He is the sweetest child, and longs so much for a good friend.

I recently read a blog by a mother whose child faced cerebral palsy.  She lamented that the greatest trial her son faced was that of isolation.  It frightened me, and I began to search the web.  Many parents suggest that the best tool is to come to the school and educate your child's peers about their condition.  It seems difficult task to try to make children understand something that adults struggle to understand.

However in my search I found a blog where one mom shares her lesson plan on how to educate her sons class on Autism.  Her explanation was so clear and logical, I feel like everyone who knows a child diagnosed with Autism should read this post.  It was called "A hair-dryer kid in a toaster-brained world."  When you get to the bottom of her post click on the link "Question 2" and continue reading.  Its such a simple way to explain the world of a child with Autism.

Her experience really gives me hope.  It sounded like the kids were very receptive.  I pray we will find the same type of children in our neighborhood, and escape the trial of isolation that sadly many special needs children face daily.  

I was excited to see that Lady Gaga is starting a foundation called "Born This Way" to help promote awareness and acceptance for children with Rare Diseases.  I hope that it has an deep impact to improve the lives of special needs individuals. 

Cancer Risks

I think every parent realizes that their child will face a variety of problems, illnesses, and sorrow in their lifetime.   Even with that knowledge it's still hard to hear that your child will likely have to deal with cancer.  The good news is that the cancers shown to correlate with PTEN are curable if caught early.  Try to remember that information is power. 

I recently read an article entitled "Lifetime Cancer Risks in Individuals with Germline PTEN Mutations." This study followed all types of PTEN mutations including: insertions, deletions, indels, splice site mutations, and the category we fall under "large deletions".  The article was published by the American Association of Cancer Research, and most of it went over my head.  However I was able to glean a few details which I've compiled into this simple list.  The list includes the cancers associated with PTEN mutations/  the percent chance that someone with a PTEN will face this type cancer/ and the age to start screenings:

• Breast Cancer (Females with PTEN mutations 85.2%) - Cases start appearing at 30 years of age.
• Epithelial Thyroid (35.2%) Cases start appearing in infancy
• Endometrial (28.2%) Cases start appearing at 25 years of age.
• Colorectal (9%) Cases begin appearing around age 40
• Kidney (33.6%) Cases begin appearing around age 40
• Melanoma (6%)  Earliest case documented was age 3

Though these numbers are intimidating I'm so glad that the research is being done.  Its nice to have a resource available.  The research is moving forward, and the more information the better.